You Don't Have to Be an Artist
- Aniki Shani Coates
- Aug 23
- 5 min read

There is something interesting that happens when you ask adults to make art. Give a child a piece of paper and some crayons, and most children will start creating without giving much thought to whether their drawing is "good." Give that same assignment to a room full of adults, and you are much more likely to hear, "I can't draw," "I'm not artistic," or "Mine is going to look terrible."
Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that creativity was something we could be judged on.
We learned to compare our work to someone else's. We learned to recognize what looked "good" and what didn't. We learned that some people were talented and others weren't. Eventually, some of us stopped creating altogether.
But what if creativity was never meant to be a performance?
Creativity Isn't a Competition
A garden doesn't have to produce the biggest tomato to be meaningful. A photograph doesn't have to hang in a gallery to capture something beautiful. A song doesn't have to reach the radio to matter, and a poem doesn't have to be published to have meaning.
The value of creating isn't always found in the finished product. Sometimes it is found in the experience of making it.
When we create, we make choices. We experiment. We notice. We make mistakes and adjust. We sometimes discover something we weren't expecting. The process asks us to pay attention, and that alone can be meaningful in a world where so much of our attention is constantly being pulled in different directions.
Creating something doesn't have to produce a masterpiece. Sometimes it simply gives us an opportunity to experience ourselves differently.
What If You Couldn't Fail?
Imagine someone handed you a piece of paper and said, "There is no right answer."
You can use any color. You can draw whatever you want. You can change it, cover it, start over, or decide you don't like it. Nobody is going to grade it, and nobody is going to tell you that you did it wrong.
What would you make?
For many adults, that question is surprisingly difficult. We become so accustomed to being evaluated that we forget what it feels like to explore without worrying about the outcome.
Creativity gives us an opportunity to practice something we don't always get enough of: curiosity without perfection.
Creativity Gives Us Room to Play
Play isn't just for children. Adults need opportunities to experiment, laugh, explore, and do things that don't have to become productive.
Creativity can give us that space.
Paint. Draw. Build. Write. Dance. Sing. Take photographs. Make a collage. Work with clay. Arrange flowers. Garden. Sew. Cook something you've never made before. There are countless ways to create, and none of them require you to call yourself an artist.
The point isn't necessarily to develop a new talent. The point is to participate in the experience of creating.
That distinction can be freeing.
Start With What You Already Have
You don't need a studio or expensive supplies to begin. A pencil and notebook can be enough. So can your phone camera, some old magazines, cardboard, fabric scraps, leaves, flowers, or recycled materials.
In fact, creativity often begins with noticing what is already around us.
A leaf has shape and texture. A flower has color. A building has lines and patterns. Your neighborhood has stories. Your family's photographs hold memories. A recipe can carry generations of knowledge.
Sometimes we don't need more inspiration. We simply need to slow down enough to notice what is already there.
What If You Made Something Just for You?
We live in a time when almost everything can become content. Take the photograph. Post it. Make the video. Share it. Build a brand. Sell it. Get likes. Get followers. Turn your hobby into a business.
There is nothing inherently wrong with any of those things. But creativity doesn't always have to be public, productive, or profitable.
You are allowed to make something nobody else sees.
You can write a poem and keep it in a drawer. You can paint something and never hang it on a wall. You can take photographs that stay on your phone. You can make something simply because you enjoyed making it.
Not everything meaningful has to be shared.
Sometimes creating something just for yourself can be an important reminder that your experience has value even when no one else is watching.
Creativity Can Be Part of Self-Care
We often think of self-care as something we do to ourselves: a treatment, a purchase, a vacation, a service, or some other form of restoration.
Creative expression can be different. It is something we actively participate in.
When we draw, write, photograph, paint, garden, sew, cook, dance, or make something with our hands, we create space to slow down and pay attention. We may find ourselves thinking about something differently or noticing an emotion we hadn't fully acknowledged.
That doesn't mean creative expression is automatically therapy. Art therapy is a professional therapeutic practice, and significant emotional distress may require support from a qualified mental health professional.
But creativity can still have a meaningful place in our overall wellness.
Don't Compare Your Beginning to Someone Else's Masterpiece
One of the easiest ways to stop ourselves from creating is to compare our beginning to someone else's finished work.
You see a beautiful painting and think, "I could never do that." But you aren't seeing the hours of practice that came before it. You aren't seeing the mistakes, abandoned projects, awkward first attempts, or years of learning.
You're seeing the result of someone else's journey.
Your beginning is allowed to look like a beginning.
You don't have to know what you're doing before you start. You can learn as you go.
A Simple Creative Challenge
If you haven't created anything in a while, try making something every day for one week. Keep it simple.
On the first day, draw something you see. The next day, photograph something beautiful. Write five sentences about a memory. Make something with your hands. Listen to a song and move your body. Create something using materials you already have. On the final day, make something that you don't show anyone.
Then pay attention to how you feel before, during, and after.
You may learn something...not necessarily about your artistic ability, but about yourself.
You Are Allowed to Create
You don't have to earn creativity. You don't have to prove that you're talented enough. You don't have to become an artist, and you don't have to make something beautiful.
You simply have to give yourself permission to begin.
Creativity isn't reserved for the people whose names appear in museums. It belongs to all of us.
Maybe the goal isn't to become an artist. Maybe the goal is to become more comfortable being fully human...to notice, imagine, play, express, experiment, make mistakes, and make something anyway.
So pick up the pencil. Grab the paintbrush. Take the photograph. Write the poem. Plant the flower. Turn up the music.
Make something.
And don't worry about whether you're an artist.
You are a human being...you feel, you think, you know. That's enough reason to create.
Know Good & Well
At Know Good & Well, we believe wellness is about more than what we eat, how much we exercise, or how well we manage stress. It is also about connection, expression, creativity, purpose, play, and meaning.
Sometimes living well means giving ourselves permission to do something simply because it brings us joy.
Sometimes it means remembering something we knew as children:
We don't create because we're artists. We create because we can.



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